Dads! Divorce can be difficult for teenage children so take time for them. It will make a difference to them!
Your teen’s social skills and self worth may depend on how much time he spends with his dad, according to a new study. Researchers from the Pennsylvania State University found that spending time with parents was important to teens well-being.
The study found that teens who spent more time with their dads with others present had better social skills with peers, and teens who spent more time alone with their dads had better general self-worth.
The researchers studied whether the stereotype of teens growing apart from their parents and spending less time with them captured the everyday experiences of families by examining changes in the amount of time youths spent with their parents from early to late adolescence.
On five occasions over seven years, they conducted home and phone interviews with moms, dads, and the two oldest children in almost 200 white, middle- and working-class families living in small cities, towns, and rural communities.
At the start of the study, the oldest children were about 11 and the second oldest were about 8. During the home interviews, teens reported on their social skills with peers and their general sense of self-worth.
In the two to three weeks following each home visit, the researchers also conducted a series of seven nightly phone interviews, asking teens about their activities during the day of the call, including who participated in the activities with them.
According to youths reports of their daily time, although parent-teen time when others were also present declined from the early to late teen years, parent-teen time with just the parent and the teen present actually increased in early and middle adolescence a finding that contradicts the stereotype of teens growing apart from their parents.
This suggests that, while adolescents become more separate from their families, they continue to have one-on-one opportunities to maintain close relationships with their parents, Susan McHale, co-author of the study said.
The study also found that the decline in the time teens spent with parents and others was less pronounced for second-born than for first-born siblings. And it found that both moms and dads spent more time alone with a child of their same sex when they had both a daughter and a son.
As this post demonstrates, divorce can be difficult for teenage children so take time for them. It will make a difference to them! Your teen’s social skills and self worth may depend on how much time he spends with their dad.